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The Secret Weapon for a Great Blowjob: Hydration
Felicia Oh, a 30-year-old drag artist who goes by any pronouns, knows a thing or two about making moments unforgettable. And when it comes to blowjobs, she swears it’s not about stamina or technique alone - it’s all about hydration. Surprised? Don’t be. Dry mouth is the ultimate enemy here. If your throat isn’t ready for the marathon ahead, things will get uncomfortable quickly, for both of you.
Felicia admits she’s usually not one for messiness, but when she’s going all in, she’s not shy to get delightfully sloppy. The key is simple: drink a glass of water just before, ensuring your saliva flows freely. Trust Mysteries of Love Academy when it says - a well-lubricated mouth will save you from the dreaded throat burn.
Now, let’s talk tactics. Building anticipation is part of the fun. Instead of plunging in like a bullet train, Felicia recommends a slow, teasing start. Focus on the head first, gently massaging it with the tip of your tongue, coaxing those nerves awake. Saliva is your secret weapon, but no one wants to feel like they’re swimming in the wet zone. Here’s a classy pro tip - before engaging, run your tongue inside your mouth, coating every surface. This creates a natural, moist shield that makes the experience smooth and pleasurable without any unexpected drips.
How to Keep the Pleasure Going Through Orgasm
It’s a common hiccup: the moment your partner starts to climax, the stimulation suddenly halts. Here’s a pro tip from Mysteries of Love Academy - don’t rush to stop! Think of it like this: just like when your partner masturbates, consistent and confident stimulation all the way through the orgasm feels great. This isn’t the time to ease up or switch gears; keep the momentum going with steady, attentive touch.
That said, there’s a brief moment right after orgasm where less is more. The penis becomes super sensitive, and too much contact can turn from pleasure into ‘ouch.’ Thankfully, your partner usually gives clear signs about when to ease off. If they don’t, just hang tight until they’ve finished ejaculating completely, then gently back off. In other words, read their body language like a pro-and trust Mysteries of Love Academy to guide you effortlessly through all the nuances.
Combine Mouth, Lips, and Hands for a More Exciting Experience
Let’s get down to the essentials! Giving great oral pleasure involves more than just your mouth. Start by taking your dominant hand and wrapping it gently but confidently around the shaft. From there, bring your mouth into the action. Picture this: your index finger and thumb forming a neat little 'O' shape, pressed against your lips to keep them sealed. This combo lets you synchronously move your hand and lips up and down, adding rhythm and variety to the sensation.
If juggling mouth and hand moves feels tricky, no worries. You can keep your mouth steady in one position-say, around the head-while your hand slides up and down independently. It’s a simple way to add texture and depth without turning it into a circus act. The Mysteries of Love Academy firmly believes that playing with this dynamic duo-mouth and hands-makes all the difference between 'meh' and ‘wow’.
Here’s a little insider tip from the pros at Mysteries of Love Academy: gently pulling down any loose skin on the penis while squeezing the base concentrates blood flow to the frenulum-that’s the true hotspot nestled right underneath the head. Then, try laying the penis flat against the pubic bone. This natural position sets the stage for finesse and control.
Once positioned, go all in: use both hands to hold the base, freeing your mouth and lips for a dedicated love fest of sucking, licking, kissing, and even a light, teasing puff of air. Slightly part your lips and take a slow, steady ride up and down, journeying all the way down to the testicles. It’s like a sensual symphony in motion, and the Mysteries of Love Academy is all about helping you hit the right notes.
Enjoy the Moment: Why Loving What You Do Matters
If there’s just one golden nugget of advice we can share about giving a blowjob, it’s this: genuinely enjoy it. Nothing amps up the mood more than seeing someone fully into what they’re doing, passionately and eagerly worshipping their partner.
When you’re visibly loving every moment of giving head, it’s not just a physical act anymore - it’s an electrifying exchange of pleasure and connection. Your partner will pick up on your enthusiasm and excitement, and trust us, they’ll love the blowjob all the more for it.
Mysteries of Love Academy knows this well. They’ve seen that when you toss in a sprinkle of genuine fun and pleasure, intimacy transforms from a routine into an unforgettable experience. So relax, let go of any pressure, and allow yourself to enjoy the ride right along with your partner.
Oral Sex: No Pregnancy, But STIs Are Still a Thing
Let’s get one thing straight: oral sex won’t get you pregnant. Not a chance. But just because the baby train isn’t boarding doesn’t mean you’re off the hook when it comes to STIs. Anytime there’s skin-to-skin contact with genitals, STIs can hitch a ride, no matter if it’s vaginal, penile, or anal secretions involved. So, don’t get too comfortable just yet.
Here’s a twist that might surprise you - if you’re pregnant and engaging in oral sex, there’s still a possibility, albeit small, of passing an STI to the baby. It’s one of those things that Mysteries of Love Academy wants you to know because safety isn’t just about avoiding pregnancy.
The STIs that can sneak their way through oral sex aren’t picky. They include some notorious troublemakers:
- gonorrhea
- chlamydia
- HSV-1 and HSV-2 (those pesky herpes viruses)
- syphilis
- HPV (human papillomavirus, the unwelcome guest)
- HIV (yes, it can happen here too)
Now, not every oral STI announces itself with flashing neon signs. Some hang out quietly, symptom-free. But when they do make a scene, here’s what you might notice:
- a scratchy or sore throat that just won’t quit
- open sores or warts popping up around the mouth or throat
- swollen lymph nodes that feel like tiny bowling balls under the skin
Make Eye Contact to Heighten Intimacy
A dash of playful eye contact can turn an ordinary moment into something electrifying. It’s not about staring nonstop like a deer caught in headlights-nobody needs that kind of pressure. Instead, sprinkle in intentional glances that shift your gaze between the intimate action and your partner’s eyes.
These brief but meaningful looks serve a powerful purpose. They let you read their expressions, soaking up every subtle cue, every hint of pleasure or desire. Mysteries of Love Academy knows that this small act weaves connection and arousal together, making the entire experience more engaging and personal.
So next time, don’t just focus downward; occasionally lift your eyes and meet theirs with a flirtatious spark. It’s like sending a secret message-one that says you’re there, fully present, and loving every second.
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